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Finding True Love

Situations like yours are common today. Even in religious countries, the society is becoming less favorable to spiritual ideas and beliefs, and this indifference is either born from a materialistic vision of life, or comes from one’s family upbringing. But you’re interested in knowing whether your relationship will work out. It would be enough to say that what matters is that you love each other. This is the basis.

However, one needs to understand what this means for two people who intend to spend their whole lives together. This involves helping each other accomplish a common goal. You must ask yourselves: what does marriage and living “forever” together mean for both of you? What do you think of opening yourselves up as a couple to the needs of others? How do you want to educate your children for the future? What does love mean for each of you?

There is a great confusion between love and feelings, for as soon as their passion fades, a couple separates, believing that one will find true love elsewhere. But love, without excluding feelings, requires continuous commitment. Marriage is built, little by little, to the point of catching a glimpse of the “work of art” that makes two one flesh. Take advantage of this engagement period to get to know each other well. Only in this way will your bond have a solid foundation in order to move forward. You’ll be able to find out if he has a profound respect for your convictions that doesn’t stop you from going ahead with your relationship with God.

You also need to show the same respect towards him, without expecting your love to change him. Everyone should be accepted as they are. If you decide to marry, you must be ready to accept and love each other all your life as both of you are today.

Maria and Raimondo Scotto

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